What is not love is always fear, and nothing else.
All healing is essentially the release from fear.

Emergency measures for PTSD

Posted: April 4th, 2015 | Author: | Filed under: Abuse, EFT, Healing, Mind, Moods, Neglect, Psychology, PTSD, Stress, Tools, Trauma, Troops, Veterans, Vets, Video | No Comments »

Trauma happens. Daily. To many. Those of us who have been suddenly exposed to terror, horror and shock, those of us who have lived in it for extended periods of time, all of us suffer at least some degree of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

Sufferers of PTSD — even veterans — are not always correctly diagnosed and are even more often not treated. However, those who do receive attention do not always reap sufficient benefit from conventional treatment.

Sometimes it takes a child to say what no adult will — the emperor has no clothes and the medical field has no cure for PTSD. The conventional mental health system offers diagnoses and medications, but the mere labeling and numbing of symptoms does not equate to genuine healing. Terror and horror persist in the hearts and minds of victims and witnesses, both. The good news is,

All healing is essentially the release from fear.
Healing is always certain.

We can do it ourselves. Fact is, we must. No one else can. Here is where we start. Here is where we learn to release the fear that has tied our minds and bodies into knots. Here is where we learn how to let go of fear.

We learn the principles of self-healing. We practice with ourselves and one another. We address one memory, one pain, one tense muscle at a time. Soon we are free of the shudder, the revulsion, the horror, the past. We feel real peace again. We have taken back our lives.

The two videos in this post demonstrate emergency relief for anxiety using acupressure points for stress. This might come in handy as you are reading, learning, practicing, addressing issues, and releasing them. Get these two helpful stress-release tools under your belt and then scour and devour the rest of the healing methods here on this site. Any one of them might be enough to heal all your wounds. But one might “speak to” you more than another. Try them all.

As we release fear, we feel safer; as we feel safer, others will feel safer around us.


Healing ABC 123

Posted: September 25th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: ACIM, Depression, Emotions, Fear, Feelings, Healing, Health, Love, Mind, Miracle, Moods, Mothers, PostPartumDepression, PTSD, Self-help, Spirit, Sprit, Tools, Vets, Video | No Comments »

A new video to accompany the “Roadmap” video!!!


No words, just a handle

Posted: August 30th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Body, Emotions, Feelings, Happiness, Healing, Moods, Self-help, Tools | No Comments »

Words are difficult for some of us, especially those of us who were badly traumatized. So we feel perplexed by words. We don’t know how to express what we feel. Is what we feel “panic” or “anxiety”? Is it “fear” or terror” or “horror” or “dread” or “regret”? We don’t know the exact words to use. But there is a very simple way to get at what we need to get at. Read the rest of this entry »


Steps to healing 1-2-3-4-5

Posted: August 30th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Emotions, Healing, PTSD, Self-help, Steps 1-2-3-4, Tools, Trauma, Troops, Veterans, Vets | No Comments »

Steps 1-2-3-4-5

Below are some very simple steps all healing goes through.

1) Determine to free yourself — “I am willing to see this differently.”

Healing cannot be forced upon you. It needs to be invited before it comes to help.

2) Assure yourself that you are safe here & now…

Look around you, make sure that you are safe, here and now. Assure yourself that your story happened in the past and the past is gone. Breathe into the tension and tightness, the bodily sensations. Let the breath massage all the fear and tension out of you.

3) Tell or write your story in the first person, or as if it is happening to someone else…

 

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Lester Levenson, The Release Technique and The Sedona Method

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Forgiveness, Happiness, Healing, Mind, Moods, Psychology, Sedona, Tools, Video | 1 Comment »

Lester Levenson, was a physicist and engineer who lived from 1909 to 1984. He inspired The Sedona Method, and the Release Technique. At age 43, he was told he only had weeks to live. He lived 40 more years because of what he learned about healing himself.

Lester, like us, liked simplicity. He said “KISS” means Keep It Simple, Sweetheart. And he did it. There is nothing complicated about what he taught — and yet it is extremely powerful and helpful. Two people took the ball for a touchdown after Lester died: Larry Crane and Hale Dwoskin.


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Re-evaluation Co-counseling (RC)

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Healing, Mind, Moods, Psychology, PTSD, RC, Stress, Tools, Video | 1 Comment »

Re-evaluation co-counseling is a peer counseling system. RC has been very helpful for a lot of people. I consider it to be a “big chunk” tool. It lets you know that tears, thrashing about and shaking are not “bad” but are natural ways the body discharges emotion. I have seen it work miracles. Read the rest of this entry »


Emotional Freedom Technique – EFT

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Body, Cancer, Children, EFT, Healing, Moods, Psychology, Tools, Video | 1 Comment »

This video is an introduction to Emotional Freedom Technique. EFT seemed pretty silly to me when I first heard about it… but I grew into it. Once I understood how it worked, I was sold. Read the rest of this entry »


Ho’oponopono

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Abuse, Forgiveness, Happiness, Healing, Ho'oponopono, Mind, Neglect, Psychology, PTSD, Stress, Tools, Video | No Comments »

An exquisitely simple yet powerfully effective ancient Hawaiian healing method…

More than thirty years ago, at the Hawaii State Hospital, there was a special ward, a clinic for mentally ill criminals. It was a violent, dangerous, dreary place. Read the rest of this entry »


Byron Katie – The Work

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Depression, Forgiveness, Healing, Mind, Moods, Psychology, SSRIs, Stress, Tools, Video | No Comments »

From the book, Loving What Is

Byron Kathleen Reid became severely depressed while in her thirties. Over a ten-year period her depression deepened, and Katie (as she is called) spent almost two years rarely able to leave her bed, obsessing over suicide. Then one morning, from the depths of despair, she experienced a life-changing realization.

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Focusing

Posted: August 24th, 2010 | Author: | Filed under: Body, Focusing, Healing, Mind, Moods, Psychology, Tools, Video | No Comments »

Focusing is a very introspective practice, almost like meditation. It is another peer-counseling system taught in a class, so you can meet others who will trade time with you. But it is not essential to have a partner to do it — you can do it alone — many do.

Eugene Gendler, founder of focusing, noticed that the clients who made the best progress in counseling were those who did not just talk but could pause, be still, and go inward to feel what was going on within. Gendlin developed a method of teaching everyone to do this, whether with a counselor, or alone. Read the rest of this entry »